” I have been looking around, I have been searching for that true material that will befit my personality, but, I couldn’t find a reliable woman. Ask yourself this question : Who will I marry?” – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
As a matter of fact, “who will I marry?” must be a question for everyone in as much as we are living, this must not be a question for the singles only but, also the married men and women are not exempted from this issue because they should be able to transfer this question to their children. Yet, who will you marry? Is it a lady who has no character but, has an epitome of beauty ? Is it a lady whose background is solidified with wealth? Is it a lady who is elegant and adorable? The choice is yours, and it depends on what you are looking for. It has been assumed that character is like a smoke, you can not cover it for a long time. The above topic must also be launched to ladies who are yet to marry, what kind of a man would you like to marry? A fool will think he or she is wise thus, even foolishness is a platform from wiseness. This is not applicable to all cases.
The above picture is also a watchword for bachelors who are yet to marry. Will you treat your wife to be, sensibly? Will you make her special in public? We can not use a common circumstance to judge this issue, it should be noted that part of the stride of life is to get married and have children. If good children depends on the kind of a woman you marry, then, decency will be permitted. The youths have been cajoled by the worldly sycophantic postulations thus, realities became unknown to them. Even, the good bachelors and spinsters have been betrayed in several relationships. They are still clamoring on this question : Who will I marry? What you want to become is you but, you. Can you deceive yourself? To know the truth, truth must not be true. If that should be the case, who will you marry?
” Do not be deceived by an appearance of a woman or a man, nor, his or her exhibition. This is a camouflage created to get your heart,when the time comes the truth will be unveiled.” – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
“I cried when I saw some people in abject penury who could not rescue themselves. What have they done wrong to deserve an impoverished life? They have lamented within, but, nobody could set them free. Why?.” – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Can this be a predestination? Is it something predestined by the supreme being? Who wants to suffer? How will I see success and choose failure? It has now become the survival of the fittest. Yet, we have capable men and women who are gallant in everything. They have forgotten this people who are experiencing impoverishment. Where is the government? If the essence of a government is to cater for the welfarism of the people, then, poverty termination should be put into consideration. A country like Nigeria where people pray fervently for total demolition or destruction of poverty, yet, the only improvement seen, is the elevation of the rich and the depreciation of the poor. Progress or regress? It is better not to be, than to be. Who will save us from this calamitous scene?
As a matter of fact, I hope this illusion will not continue for life. Now, tell me, how do we tend to settle the rift between them? Tears in their eyes and what they can do is, to walk within the auditorium of no hope. We have been deceived by their sugarcoated utterances coupled with their historical lies, I doubt if real is still real. Can you hear the lamentations? Can you feel the pains? They are still asking their creator why the unbearable is given to them, in fact, emotions can not express how I am feeling as I am writing, yet, what will I do? I have played my role in this journey thus, my ability to help all, won’t be accepted since I am not the unknown.
” Few words should be enough for conviction ” – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
” I have heard several theses about gender equality, in fact, I became thoughtful because, women are still clamoring for equality in all spheres of life. I will be plain on this issue as I will treat it with a serious notion. But, will I be plain on this issue? Am I not a man? Will I favour men or women? “. – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Can this cleavage be eradicated totally? For many years women have been clamoring for gender equality, this is because they are the victims involved, no doubt their voices are audible just like a bell that rings. They want this equality to be entrenched into the world ‘s constitution immediately, but, it will be a long walk to actualizing this equality. If women still envy themselves, then, how can this equality be actualized? Are women United? The quest should be an adamant journey or a stubborn journey which will be an agitation of no retreat, no surrender, but, it is, as if women have forgotten themselves on this issue. If gender equality should be generalized, it should start within women.
It has been assumed that, behind every successful man there is a woman. But, can this be found in this contemporary society? It might be the case that, this assertion became a motivation for women to fight for gender equality which seems to be an existing illusion in an unrealistic world. It is very pertinent to note that, the insolence structure geared towards women is also a crux that instigated the morale of women to clamor for gender equality. I am not saying that, gender equality is impossible, but, if they want equality, have they equalised themselves within? This means, men will behave like women, and women will behave like men. The question is, who will be the breadwinner? Even, what makes a gender oppositional is the name. In other words, the essence of the word, “gender” is a division which are men and women. Why gender equality?
” This issue should be given a serious attention, I am afraid that women might reactivate the dormant postulations established priorly. Men and women should work together for the growth and stability of the world. “——-Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
“ Wait! What are you trying to do? Do you want to commit suicide because life has been unfair to you? Have you questioned your inner life? Who told you you will be accepted in another place after your termination? These questions are to be answered subjectively or personally.”——-Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
I am writing this article with an emotional goodness may be life can eulogise or praise me for what I have been doing. But, I am sorry to announce that life doesn’t know anybody, because she acts as if she knows no one. At times, you tend to utter this statement, “ am I the only one” also, I am not exempted from this particular act. When you are a slave to life, then, what can you do? Life has not restricted you to explore but, you are the one creating a limit, I am not saying that life doesn’t have a limit. Hence, there is nothing bad in trying. We are to rule life, but, life dictates all aspects, because the power of death is in life. What will you do if life is angry?
Everyone is clamoring for freedom. How about the cage life has given you? If you can break out of life, then, you are free to see freedom, not that you are in freedom. Do not be confused with that utterance, if that is ingested and digested it will make sense. In our contemporary society, something sensible is not sensible, but, something senseless is sensible. When I write I give a space of thinking because I want the reader to put his or her self into the realm of actualization. Moreover, when you lack the self belief you will become a subordinate being who can’t stand to fight except he or she is supported. When will you eradicate that slavery concept? Tell life you want to succeed, in lieu of this, do not opt out.
” In our contemporary society, something sensible is not sensible, but, something senseless is sensible. All views can not be the same because approaches are different. As a matter of fact, time is so happy that we have been taken by irrelevance.” – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
“I was perturbed by the huge maltreatment geared towards women who are to participate in politics. If I have my way I would create a world of women” – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Who says women can’t participate in politics? Who says women are not relevant in the society? Who says they are not brave to face the tasks? There is no doubt women have been ridiculed in our contemporary society. Some have asked about the usefulness of women in politics, and the contributions they will give if called into politics. The time has come to stand and fight for your rights, if it is not now, when will it be? As future will be no more even if, there is a future, it should be now. Are you going to let people subdue you? Will you allow a minor issue to subjugate your decisions?
You must not give up, no matter what the maltreaters are planning. Do not bargain your pride for anything even if, it will cost you everything. Who can sacrifice the whole? Who can raise the banner of women and make it a vestige of agitation? Where are the true women? Are they still alive? Wake up from your slumber, fight the good fight which will make all generations know you are, who you are. When I see women being maltreated I always feel disheartened, but, how can a subjective mind move the world, if not, objectivism? Yet, you are hiding under the umbrella of deceptions. The time is now or never.
Why do regard yourself as a weaker vessel? Your mental capacity can activate the true person you are, in as much as you have the concept of thinking as related to human knowledge. For many years, women have been obstructed in some aspects, if not all. But few women rose to fight for the independence of women, however, their lives were truncated. In this modern society, women are too busy with the worldly attractions, and would rather prefer to be. Where is your passion as a woman? How about the zeal you once had? It is shameful that women have failed to actualize their fundamental rights.
” Do not see this as a mere article, I have imagined a world without women, but, I realized the importance of women within the society. This is a short preface. Women arise. “—–Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua