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WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT? 

WHY MARRIED MEN CHEAT? 

                  AN OVERVIEW

 In this article I may not highlight reasons why married men cheat, but the reader must follow each line carefully in order to see reasons why married men  cheat. There is no doubt that some  married men are the reigning champion when it comes to cheating, what would have caused this adulterous act? Or is it the case that married women don’t cheat? Of course, some of them cheat, but the most popular one belongs to the realm of married men. As a single man who is not married, you might be tempted to ask this question : can he handle this? So, I will want the reader to relax and enjoy my exegeses which will be like an illumination, not a defensive thought towards married men that cheat. – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua.

                      EXEGESES 

  Listen to this story, may be it might be of help to you . It’s a story of an embarked journey before embracing an institution called marriage : 

   When you saw her, her beauty was like a shining star, you didn’t hesitate to woo her. Although, she gave you a huge difficulty before accepting your proposal, finally she accepted your date invite and you became partners of love which led to your marriage. Happily married and even joyous, to the extent that people in your community always wonder where such a love lives. Soon, you have had enough sex with her, so, you wanted to try a new woman whose blood is cold and agile. The woman you married few years ago is no longer hot again. Hmm, some  women are very seductive, it will be  very hard to resist their proposal, especially when they dance and wear a sexual attire. Some women do that on purpose, how can a married man resist this indirect titillation? Should his eyes be blinded? In as much as women are living in this world, seduction will always be available. It will take grace for your man not to cheat on you when married. 

  It is very essential to note that, what rings in the mind of a married man is to bear children who will inherit him and make his family to be alive after his departure. In addition to this, anyone who has not bore a child or children might force her husband to make an alternative move towards having a child. Hence, he will neglect his adorable wife all in the name of having kids, but he has forgotten the vow he took during their conglomeration which he said, “for good  and for bad till death do us part”. This implies that, no matter the situation, whether there is a child or no child, one is not permitted to cheat. But, let me ask a woman  this question : if you were to be a man, would you stay in a marriage where your woman can’t  bear a child? Remember, it will be an easy task to judge with alacrity since you are not a man. As a matter of fact, this doesn’t warrant a man to cheat on his wife, I know some women will be happy by my supportive thoughts towards  the world of women. Yet, I will ask all women, are you submissive to your husband? Not only that, are you also romantic? What kind of clothes do you wear when you are with him? 

  Although, marrying because of  beauty is very dangerous, as it might fade at some point in life, but the truism of a marriage is when character, love and submission are convivial. It has gotten to a stage of asking several questions as regards building a home, even thinking must be taught how to think. Is it in the nature of men to cheat? I guess body structures are not  the same, so there is need  for them to try new things. I doubt if married men can keep themselves, because in this contemporary society where women contribute to the aspect of sexual orientation which has been a mental disorder for some married men. Do you think married men have the power to resist? Let me tell you one secret : most  women are not interested in single men, but ‘married men’ is the only  option for them because they feel they can handle women  with maturity. What a world!!! 

     He’s tired  of seeing her  face all the time, in his mind he would say, “I need a fresh blood”. I think one of the solutions to solving this mess is, when all women have the same body structure in such a way that what you are seeing in other women will be the same picture of your wife. But, can this be possible? Or is it an assumed imagination which can never occur? Yet, some women are complaining about  cheating. Are they not the ones betraying themselves? If it can be possible for all women to hold a world conference and agree with one voice, may be, there will be a way out. But, the envious nature of women serves as an impediment for their progress. If people who are to stop this act can’t settle within themselves, how do you expect a total abolition to take place? 

    How about musical videos? Or should this point be exempted? Do you think I am not making sense? Women are the ones in many videos, as they tend to display some sexual parts of their body for the sake of survival. They live for today, but how about tomorrow?  If a married man pictures the movement he’s seeing in such a video, at first, he might pretend, but seduction is a spiritual embodiment. If there were no women, then cheating will be irrelevant, but as long as some women won’t stop this seductive display, the life span of married men is at risk. Now, can you see one opinion why married men cheat? As some will argue that, can’t they hold themselves? Why not, they can hold themselves, but sensitivity instigates that erection. Perhaps, this is just a view because this won’t change anything, it’s an opinion. Take a look at this below :

    “Well, it’s a world of  different options and opinions where you can’t move beyond your destiny. It’s an encrypted arena with diverse of things to be learned,you can probe yourself and ask your maker several questions as regards your life.You can twist your gender if you like, you are free to use your free life as you want, but the mysterious part is, you don’t know the number of days or years assigned for you. You may choose to marry or remain single for life. To cap this aphorism, marriage is not by force, it’s an option.” – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua. “

  I hope you are  getting my arguments as regards why married men cheat. If it is not their fault, then whose fault? As a matter of fact, some women can’t even cook a scrumptious meal, all they do is to practice how to make-up. Do you think that would stabilize your home? When you try to correct them, they tend to take you as their enemy. No matter how hard you try to get the attention of your man, in as much as he radiates within the context of women, even if, you castrate  him, he would  still find an alternative. I would have loved to emphasize on single men too, but with the way things are going married men have taken over the mantle of cheating. As a matter of fact, loyalty is hard to get. 

   Do you know that there is no tangible reason why married men cheat?  If you should ask some of them, they might  give some filmsy excuses as regards their wife. Let me make this clear : 

 ” Were you forced into marriage? Were you threatened? I guess the main aim of some of them is,to settle down with a woman of their choice and embark on the journey of cheating. Some men might be quick to counteract me by saying,” but some women also cheat “. I know, but what percentage? Because you have failed to caution yourself, you have made some women to disregard marriage by making them think that there is a sincere future with married men. Sure, the future is always bright, but at the same time, it can be dull. These married men have destroyed the future of some single women. What would be left for single men? 

  THE EPILOGUE OF MY OPINION

  At this point, I don’t want to move beyond this boundary. It’s so sad that everything will continue to be tempting. Social media is also a platform that contributes immensely to this decadence. The display of nude pictures by some women can’t be eradicated, however, in an attempt to solving this unpalatable scenario, many might commit suicide because it has become an addiction. Should all these aforementioned platforms be banished? Of course, this can’t happen. But, the only way is, every woman should find a way of limiting the way she exposes her man to her fellow friends, if not, cheating will utilize the opportunity judiciously. 

   “Cheating can be quenched, but it’s a gradual process”. – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua. 

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THE LAST DAYS OF ILLUMINATI 

THE LAST DAYS OF ILLUMINATI 

              THE ILLUMINATI 
  What else is left in this world? What is new on  this earth? I hope my thinking won’t kill me one day. But, for how long will  I continue to be a critical reminiscer? I guess it’s part of life to think about the past in order to avoid some futuristic mistakes, but I hope people won’t repeat the mistakes of others which they have committed as a result of the light, the pyramid, the eye, and the eternal. All these are symbols belonging to this occultic  group. I have no hatred for them, what I  am perturbed about is, the way they haven’t been able to tell their members the authentic truth about their establishment. All what I have been hearing is, they follow the aforementioned symbols which will bring them fame, fortune, wealth, and a lucrative job. In other words, you can have anything you desire.

   What gain is it if I don’t know what I am serving? The obscure thing about this group is, their mentality is positioned on earthly acquisition only. Yet, their members have failed to question  their suspicious identity in which they are  using to cajole people into their territory. Everything will continue to appear good in your presence, fame and wealth will always be at your doorsteps, but always remember that, it’s more than a trap. I will liken it to be a trap of eternity. As a matter of fact, this illuminati has not unveiled her true identity, and if you study their belief properly you would know that, they know that the over is certain. Kindly examine this definition of  “illuminati “ gotten from an English Dictionary :       

“An alleged global, elite, secret society which has  its ultimate objective the subjugation of humanity (world domination or New World Order).”

   Take a look at the words I purposely converted into a  small view, that is, the subjugation of humanity. From the definition you could see their purpose and mission, if that should be the case, what are they doing it for? Who are they doing it for? As they have claimed that they are not related to Satanism, perhaps one is permitted to worship any deity. Now, let’s examine the meaning of the word “DEITY” gotten from an English Dictionary: 

“The state of being a god; divine characteristics, godhead.A divine being; a god or goddess.”

 If the  above definition is true, then it is contrary to GOD’S EXISTENCE. Perhaps, when something is a deity it becomes tricky somehow, in such a way that, one is free to commit immorality. Let me ignite your thinking in order for you to understand my arguments so far :

   “Deities are real, because God is real, if not, these deities won’t be accountable at end. Hence, there is a God somewhere supervising all affairs which you know, but the mission of this elite group is, to subdue your thinking by making you assume you can act anyhow. Have you not heard this? If you do anyhow, you will see anyhow. “–Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua. 

  They control the world, so if you are planning to be a messiah in this world you must join the party. If you are not ready to sell, don’t even bother to buy. They are in their last days, so they need to bring  more candidates to their kingdom, I won’t judge them and I won’t say they are going to hell, If I do, I might upset my creator. The journey to becoming a star won’t be an easy one, yet you want to have the whole world, you want people to keep clamoring your name all the time. You want to be the talk of the town, what essence will it give? 

   A deceptive action tinted in a good manner, would  God allow you to worship anything? What “light” are they following? What “pyramid”are they following? What” eye”  are they following? What “eternal” are they following? Show your real identity and let people know your stand, let us know the  rights you have been claiming, if it is right, then, we can join you to fight for it. But, in a case where one is  not straightforward, what would you expect? Is it not deception? 

 

  It is as if most people aren’t aware of this particular organization, or may be they are, but they have underestimated their predominance. Truth be told, I could feel the pains of eternity struggling to end the world, she’s tired of all these disastrous occurrences. She has been begging the creator, because she’s angry. She wants to reign forever just as it has been ordained. But, the creator told her to wait for her time. Hence, time has been instructed to quicken herself. If that should be the case, the last days would appear like the tower of babel, but it won’t be completed, because it is a disguised concept created in order to obstruct mankind. They hid the truth and spiced it with deception for man’s consumption. 

  Honestly, all I know is, there is a God. Is not the case that He’s silent, He’s waiting for His time. You should know that, God has His own time. Some skeptics might ask me these following questions : how sure are you that there is GOD? Have you seen Him?  What if His existence wasn’t real? These few questions may put your mind to the state of doubt, but it is a conspiracy. If something is not real, why battling with it? Because it’s real that is why  they are finding different ways to end it. Their watchword is, “kindly sell your soul and acquire what you have been looking for. They will only show you the positive aspects, but when you are IN, the OUT will be difficult. 

   

    It’s a battle we have to fight, but either it’s for or against.  A battle that will take many lives, tears will be natural. How many lives are we  going to sacrifice? It’s so sad that the entire world has gotten to the stage of destruction, as a writer, what choice do I have? I have nothing to lose, but I have something to achieve. Yet, the illuminati has taken over everything , even using some churches as a tabernacle of atrocities. What choice do you have!!! Tell  me, when everything has turned into a comic state, we tend to laugh at everything, thinking it is, whereas it’s not. As a matter of fact, mankind will continue to joke until reality becomes angry. If she is, nobody can beg her to return to her normal state. 

   I hope you are following my explanations so far, don’t be carried away by the displays happening on earth, it’s a strategic distraction. Let’s ask ourselves the following questions : why offering fame and wealth when they won’t last? Why not offer the kingdom of God? Why offering war to attain peace? Must it be bad before it can be good? Why must I sell my soul in order to acquire the world? All these questions should be set just like an alarm which wakes us everyday, if the human life is short, and nothing will be taken after departure, then why should I buy a shaky happiness? 

 ” As long as we live on earth, the only choice we have is, to decide within, whether we like it or not, it is a trap created for us. The debt has been paid already, it is left for us to use the opportunity to correct all abnormalities. At times, I tend to question myself severally, may be, I have been  infected by rigorous thinking. It looks as if the world is dominating the world, not God dominating the world. As a matter of fact, if you have sold your soul, kindly reclaim it, because time would soon be replaced with eternity. “- – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua. 

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