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“WHY HIT A WOMAN?”

“WHY HIT A WOMAN?”

                  INTRODUCTION
Only if you have lost your perception then, women will make no sense. “—Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

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  She was twenty-two years old when she met this man. They got married but she could only enjoy her marriage within the interval of two years because of the beating launched by her husband. This terrible incident catapulted her to the land of the dead thus, at the age of twenty-four she died. Why should a man hit a woman? Is he responsible or irresponsible?

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     A woman brought you into this world yet you treat her as if she’s nothing. She carried you in her belly for nine months. She Covered and sheltered you with passion and love, till this moment you are radiating within her context. Well and truly, women can be provoking at times but this should not prompt you to beat a woman whether married or single. It has  been assumed that whosoever beats a woman is irresponsible, if that should be the case, responsibility won’t be happy with such act.
       What must have provoked a man to raise his hands against a woman? But in as much as anger won’t stop dwelling amidst mankind, what can he do? What he can do is to walk away from the atmosphere of that woman in order to quench his unpredictable fury. Women should be cherished and respected in the society perhaps, they are regarded as a vessel of lower standards. If this is true, a responsible man would cater and guide her through challenges not to beat her mercilessly. Yet again, why hit a woman?
       Some men will exclaim like a gong saying, “it is the devil”. Why do you always provoke the devil? In contrary, the devil doesn’t provoke, may be you are the devil. Why hit a woman? What has she done wrong to deserve this disgraceful  act? Although, women can be annoying at times but your ability to stabilise yourself  is what makes you a man. Are you still a man? I hope you have not sold your dignity and integrity?.

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     Have you imagined a world without women? If  men were to be the only existence without the opposite sex. What will be the benefit of life? Who will give birth? Would man and man have sex? We must not ridicule their efforts in the development of life. Moreover, their parental guidance should be eulogised as regards the upbringing of children.
      As a matter of fact, this act of segregation alerted some feminists to protest all in the name of equality. But, in retaliation men stood firmly to rebuff this postulation wholeheartedly. This has not forgotten to the extent of beating a woman without or with consciousness. Let this question be your watchword, “Why hit a woman?”.
      I was worried about the condemnations and the act of recklessness meted on women. The only way I could be their mouthpiece is to write on their behalf. If this won’t stop then, men will lose their pride, integrity, and dignity. Why hit a woman? Don’t you have conscience? If you are to correct a woman, it should be done with maturity. The moment you beat, maturity becomes immaturity yet you want to be respected.
      Men should not sell their world by creating unnecessary scenarios all in the name of anger. Women, do not provoke men. Unity should be embraced by both parties in order to excel in all spheres of life.

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     “ A man in his right sense  won’t beat a woman.”—Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

” WHO WILL I MARRY? “

” WHO WILL I MARRY? “

” I have been looking around, I have been searching for that true material that will befit my  personality, but, I couldn’t find a reliable woman. Ask yourself this question : Who will I marry?” – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

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  As a matter of fact, “who will I marry?” must be a question for everyone in as much as we are living, this must not be a question for the singles only but, also the married men and women are not exempted from this issue because they should be able to transfer this question to their children. Yet, who will you marry? Is it a lady who has no character but, has an epitome of  beauty ? Is it a lady whose background is solidified with wealth? Is it a lady who is elegant and adorable? The choice is yours, and it depends on what you are looking for. It has  been assumed that character is like a smoke, you can not cover it for a long time. The above topic must also be launched to ladies who are yet to  marry, what kind of a man would you like to marry? A fool will think he or she is wise thus, even foolishness is a platform from wiseness. This is not applicable to all cases.

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    The above picture is also a watchword for bachelors who are yet to marry. Will you treat your wife to be, sensibly? Will you make her special in public? We can not use a common circumstance to judge this issue, it should be noted that part of the stride of life is to get married and have children. If good children depends on the kind of a woman you marry, then, decency will be permitted. The youths have been cajoled by the worldly sycophantic postulations thus, realities became unknown to them. Even, the good bachelors and spinsters have been  betrayed in several relationships. They are still clamoring on this question : Who will  I marry? What you want to become is you but, you. Can you deceive yourself? To know the truth, truth must not be true. If that should be the case, who will you marry?

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  ” Do not be deceived by an appearance of a woman or a man, nor, his or her exhibition. This is a camouflage created to get your heart,when the time comes the truth will be unveiled.” – – – – – Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua

A MARRIAGE FROM THE PAST

          A blast from the past came suddenly but we thought this should be a mere scenario. This nonchalance became a marriage for mankind thus, he couldn’t rescue himself from the perspectives of good and bad coupled  with the importance he has towards life. There is need for exigency in as much as he has geared a serenity in most aspects.
           The criteria created was to sharpen the stride attached  to man’s life, whether we like it or not, we are all attached to one life. And if there is another  life then, there will no need for this life. Aren’t we tired? Aren’t we tired of the quest and questions of this life? At times, man has suggested many options but those options can’t be actualized because he has  no life but another life which  is not meant for him.
        It has become a cage of no return, and a will nilly postulation. The best way is yet to be discovered. Thinking  will continue to live, no doubt, we can’t quench it and if we do then, none will be in existence. Once we are married to life, it is forever but it will be over. This marriage will be the fastest in the  history of man’s life.
      By Akinrulie Opeyemi Joshua
    “As for those searching for an extension of life, don’t  be deceived. The extension of  life is your life”